Saturday, January 2, 2010

Which is Best after Breaking Up: Moving on or Making Up?

By T Dub Jackson

No one can really say whether moving on is better that making up after a break up and vice versa. The thing is, each of these moves has its factors that can help you decide whether to move on or make up.

Making a major decision is not a thing one should act on quickly - it's a thing one should spend more time thinking before coming into something. Sometimes, especially when the emotion is too intense, we neglect to make the right decision and go for what the intensity has dictated us to do. Spending more time over a decision-making is very important for it can prevent you from committing mistakes again.

Does it sound good enough? Do you have any clue on determining which relationship is worth saving and not worth saving?

Do you want to repair your damaged relationship with your ex? This is some sort of a critical question knowing that a broken heart wants nothing but to reunite with his or her love. But what if the relationship isn't really worth fighting for? What if it's a one-way relationship only?

If you're going to make a go of making up you're going to have to come to terms with the fact that both of you need to be putting in an effort and one of you can't carry the weight of the relationship on your own.

Is your ex going to be willing to work to make things better? If the answer to this question is no and you've been carrying the burden of the relationship all this time then the answer is simple. Moving on will be your best bet.

If you are both willing to work and have made equal sacrifices and contributions to make the relationship work in the past you might have the perfect scenario for magical relationship recovery. - 16892

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